Make sense of what's going on in your relationship

Grayflag is an AI relationship analysis app. Answer a few questions, describe what happened or share your own chats, and get a clear, honest estimate: green, gray or red flag.

Download on the App StoreOpen in the appOpens the Grayflag app if it is installed

How it works

No fixed quiz. The questions follow your answers, and the result explains itself.

  1. Answer

    Tell Grayflag what's going on. The questions adapt to your answers, from a handful to about forty, and skip what doesn't apply.

  2. Analyze

    Your answers, and anything you share, are analyzed by AI on our server. Recent changes weigh more than habits that were always there.

  3. See the result

    See where it lands on the flag spectrum, the signals behind the estimate, other possible explanations and what to pay attention to.

Concern levelExample, for illustration

Based on what you shared, this currently looks more like a gray flag than a clear red flag.

Estimate based on what you shared, not a certainty.

More than one answer

With Grayflag Pro, the app keeps the context of your relationship so each new check starts from what it already knows.

Check

Loyalty, red flags, your texts, a change you noticed, or the health of the whole relationship.

Vault

A private case file for screenshots, notes and results, with dates, tags and your own cases.

Ask

Talk it through with Grayflag, using the context you choose to include.

An estimate, not a verdict

Grayflag works only with what you decide to share. It never opens anyone's phone, accounts or location, and it never contacts the other person. Every result says what it is based on and what else could explain it.

Private by design

What you share is sensitive. It is handled that way.

Encrypted

Your chats and screenshots are read once to create your result, then deleted. What stays, like your answers, notes and results, is encrypted with a key that belongs to your account, and no one at Grayflag reads it.

Not used for training

The AI providers process your content to answer you, keep nothing afterwards and never use it to train their models.

Delete anytime

Delete one item, all your relationship data or your whole account from the app, whenever you want.

Subscription

A subscription is required to see full results. Prices are shown in the app before you buy. Terms of use

If you feel unsafe

Grayflag is not an emergency service. If you are in danger, call your local emergency number. Find help now

Start with what's on your mind

Download on the App StoreOpen in the appOpens the Grayflag app if it is installed